The Union of Country Weddings and City Chic

We recently attended what turned out to be a wedding with rustic trappings. I assume it was supposed to be a country style settings themed toward down to earth hospitality rather than to a more formal affair.

Honestly I am pleased that it was less formal. After our second child I was having a hard time getting back down to weight and some of more dress clothes were tight in spots and I didn't really feel like going out and buying something for the afternoon just to not be able to wear it again in a couple of months because the dress was too big. As it stands I was able to look nice and not redo my wardrobe.

As Weddings Go

We got the invitation in the mail for the wedding about six months in advance. I really don't know if you need to send them out that much earlier but I guess they were foregoing the save the date card that way.

Out of curiousity I went online and looked for the design that they used. It wasn't too hard to find the invitation that they chose for the wedding. And it was even easier to figure out how much they spent on them wen taking the number of guests that they had invited for the ceremony/reception. I 'll just say it was slightly less than $300. And you can find the style that they chose easy enough.

Anyway as it stood the date was far enough in advance for us that we didn't have to change any plans so that was a plus.

When I saw the card I knew immediately that it was going to be rustic in theme. And to be honest I had to laugh because the people getting married had little at best to do with the country. They both grew up here in the city and outside from outings in the park they don't really do too much outside. Not that they need to, or that they in itself needs to be a criteria for having a down to earth wedding. Like I said I was fine with the idea and I was curious to see how the come as you are stay as long as you can, no seating arrangement would work out for them.

The ceremony and reception were held at the same same venue so it was easy as weddings go. They also had parking. And it was normal parking lot parking, not the type of parking that is done when you attend a rural wedding reception.

I have been to a couple of them where you had to park along the ditch and walk half a mile to get to the reception being held in a family member's barn. While they can be a fun, it can be some work getting back to your car when everybody is leaving and trying to drive single file down the back roads. For that I was thankful for a real parking lot.

All in all they got the rustic chic pretty well down for the most part. Even though we were celebrating at a venue I have been to a couple of different times for other events they styled it pretty well. And it was mostly rustic with a little hipster thrown in for good measure.

Which was fine by me. Coming mainly from the city the guests were also fine with it. Thought I know that my grandmother would have commented about the "oddities" and that it took some of the country charm away. It wasn't a lot. As I mentioned earlier they just took certain liberties that made the whole day a lot of fun. It also worked with their personalities, which when you ask me, is priceless when it comes to weddings.

City Living the Country Life

I am a city person but I love the country. While at the same time I hate suburbs with a passion. And so the thought of living in one is beyond disheartening.

The thought of having to drive everywhere I go is one thing that keeps us from moving back to the country to enjoy the rural lifestyle. I moved from an average-sized town with naturally nothing to do, to the city years ago. The transition from country to city was less shocking for me than the other way around would be now. For me it is crucial to be able to go places in spite of the fact that I don't have to get into my car. Some of my friends don't even have a license. For them the idea of a rustic existence is one of the worse things they can imagine. I know what it is like so I am fine with it.

The city is so liberating.

Don't get me wrong, we love being outdoors. And the peace and quiet that is given from being in a serene place. But to say that those same spaces do not exist in the city is ignorant.

Sure you can't "shoot shit" on your property. Do you need to?

There is a certain privalage that goes together with being raised in rural America and having the chance to live in the city when you are older. It gives you the chance to be around diverse people and their cultures. The chance to eat at good restaurants or attend large events is another factor that speak for city live over the rural alternatives.

Both of these options have their benefits – different strokes for different folks – though when given the chance to choose I will always chose the city.